GIACOMO P.
(not the usual tragic story about a WWI soldier… another kind of tragic story)

Giacomo P. was born in a small town in the mountains in North Italy, in 1879, and by the time he was 37, in the year 1916, he was still unmarried.
He probably had a fiancée, though: Tersilla.
In 1916 Italy was fighting in the First World War: boys were leaving their girlfriends at home, promising to marry them at the end of the war, and knowing that many of them would not come back to fulfill their promise.
Giacomo, instead, married Tersilla long before the end of the war, when he was still a soldier, probably taking advantage of a permit.
They married in March 1916 and the reason for this urgency is easy to understand: Tersilla was pregnant!
Their baby, Antonio, was born less than 4 months later and a note at the bottom of his birth record confirms that his father was absent, under arms.
Giacomo probably saw his son for the first time months later, and could only enjoy the event of his birth through the many letters that soldiers were exchanging with their families.
He surely came home around September 1917, because Tersilla was pregnant again and delivered another son, Giovanni, in June 1918.
Giacomo was declared absent because he was “called again to the arms”, so probably he had enjoyed a long permit or was exempted from service for some reason.
However, in 1918 Italy was struggling because of the war: the number of casualties and wounded soldiers was enormous and there were no more “spare boys” to call to fight, so no justification was strong enough to be exempted from fighting.
Giacomo left therefore his pregnant wife home alone and probably received the news about Giovanni’s birth by letter, again.
He surely prayed to be able to come back home and hug his newborn child soon, but he probably never did it: they all died in 1918. The two babies and Tersilla.
The causes of their deaths are not reported in the records but they may have died of Spanish flu: another tremendous adversity that hit Italy just in 1918.
When Giacomo came back home from war, after having escaped God knows how many risks, his family was destroyed, his house was empty.
He had had a wife for two years, but he probably stayed with her only for a very short time.
He had a son, but he likely saw him only once or twice.
And he had a last son, who he probably never met.
He was the one who had been most at risk of death, and he was the only one to survive.
This was the end of his first life, but he will start a second one.
In 1921, Giacomo married again, to Marianna. His new wife was a very old spinster: she was 42! And she was… Tersilla’s oldest sister!
Despite her age, at the wedding Marianna was 8 months pregnant, too!
Giacomo and Marianna had a son and a daughter. And life went on.
GOOD TO KNOW
In Italy, today, the religious marriage and the civil marriage are joined in one: at the end of the religious ceremony the priest includes the civil formulas and takes care that the civil records are duly complied and signed. In the past they were two different events, which may be held even days or months apart.
In the cases of Tersilla and Marianna I “gossiped” about them being pregnant without being married, but this may not be true: perhaps they had celebrated the religious marriage before being pregnant, and they celebrated the civil marriage months later.
The info for this story was taken from civil records only






































